2013年9月26日星期四
In Chinese culture how common is it to regularly say "I love you"?
http://www.quora.com/Chinese-Culture/In-Chinese-culture-how-common-is-it-to-regularly-say-I-love-youAnswers again.
It is obvious that we don't use "I love you" often.
I asked several friends if their parents had ever said "I love you" to them. You may can imagine the answers.Most of them said no and some said through text messages.
It may be the easiest way to say "I love you" when singing songs. Most of the songs are about love.
After the ten years' tumultuous Cultural Revolution, people were deeply shocked and touched by the beautiful songs.So Teresa Teng's songs spread nationwide.
People began to sing "love songs" and more open to say "I love you" after that.
To your sweetheart.
Well, this one really depends.
There's two types of complains girls have about their boyfriends.1) My boyfriend is sooo cold and unromantic! He never says "I love you" to me!! 2) My boyfriend has a glib tongue. He always says "I love you" to me! I'm not sure if I should believe him!So you can see that it is quite difficult to be a boyfriend in China.
Just remembered a scene in a movie randomly and it was a good example for boys.
Man: I said it when we get married. If I changed, I would let you know.
So in Chinese culture it can never be common to regularly say "I love you."
But when in Chinese, it should be super serious, at least for me!
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